What's Your EQ? Blog # 5 Due Tuesday, June 27th before class

Dr. Daniel Goleman is the author of  "Social Intelligence: The New Science of Human Relationships" and well known and respected for his work on the importance of having emotional and social intelligence vs. academic intelligence.  Watch Dr. Daniel Goleman's video lecture on Emotional and Social Intelligence at: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-hoo_dIOP8k&feature=related  Take the self-test on emotional intelligence at the following link EQ self-test and then comment on which of the 4 major aspects of emotional intelligence you feel is the most important to living a successful life and why. 

1.  Self-Awareness
2.  Self-Management
3.  Social Awareness
4.  Relationship Management

Chemical Attraction Blog 4, Due Tuesday June 25th before class

Dr. Helen Fisher's research on attraction asserts that we are drawn to certain types of people depending on our chemical make-up. 

1) Watch the following video on Dr. Fisher's research
Video: Chemistry of Attraction 

2) Take Dr. Fisher's test to find out which chemicals are your primary and secondary drivers and then blog about what personality traits you find attractive. Share with us how accurate you think Dr. Fisher's test is and why or why not.

Dr. Helen Fisher's Personality Test

What's Hot, What's Not- Blog 3 Due June 20th before class

Next class period, we will talk about what men and women find attractive in a potential romantic partner.  While we know that many of us have our own personal preferences, is who we choose more of an art or a science?  There are scientific studies suggesting that our biology picks our love interests, not necessarily our thoughts and feelings toward someone.

Watch the Discovery Channel's Top 5 videos on Sex Appeal

Science of Sex Appeals Top 5 Videos

Blog about a time that either you or someone you know was attracted to a person due to one of the variables talked about in the videos (scent, voice, face, dopamine, etc?)  What variables do you find attractive and why?  

Excuuuuse Me! Blog #2 Due Thursday, June 18th before class

While most human beings will engage in making some excuses in their lives, the common Ben Franklin saying “He that is good for making excuses is seldom good for anything else,” may be more of a self-fulfilling prophecy for excuse-makers than simply avoidance or laziness. Whether excuses are used to shift blame or improve what other people think, it may be easier for excuse-makers to live with excuses than think about living with having tried at something and failed.

We know that nonverbal communication is more trusted than verbal communication. Share with us a time when someone has given you an excuse that you know was a lie based on their nonverbal communication. How did you know that it wasn't the truth? What verbal/nonverbal cues were there? How did it affect your perception of  that person?

Fake it 'til You Become It! Due Thursday, June 18th before class

Good communication is the foundation of successful relationships, both personal and professional. We learned today how our communication with ourselves (intrapersonal communication) affects the SELF.  So, does our nonverbal communication (facial expressions, gestures, eye contact, posture, etc) also affect how we feel about ourselves?  Recent research has shown that we can actually change our brains by our nonverbals.

Watch the Following TED Video on the Power of Nonverbals

Nonverbal Podcast by Amy Cuddy- Blog 1 Due: Tuesday, June 18th before class

Assignment: Purposely change your nonverbals for 2 minutes (positively or negatively) as demonstrated in the above video and blog about the results.

Welcome to Interpersonal Communication- Introduce Yourself

As we explore what makes relationships tick, we will be covering topics such as: listening, friendships, intimate relationships, workplace issues, family dynamics, love, and conflict strategies. You will have several opportunities to reflect on your own relationships and communication style to find ways to improve all facets of your life. As part of this journey together, I will post the latest studies and hot topics related to interpersonal communication on this blog. Your job is to respond with an example to either confirm or disagree with the posting by sharing insights from your own experiences, or one you've found on a TV show, movie, or research. Feel free to comment on others' postings, and also post any interesting (articles, links, videos, books, tweets, jokes, etc.) related to communication and one-on-one relationships. I look forward to blogging with you!

Please introduce yourself by stating at least three things about yourself.  First comment due June 11th by midnight.  Also, don't forget to post your comments on the first BLOG due June 11th, too!

Andrea Mancillas
Northwest Vista College